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Are You Sexually Satisfied ?

Are you sexually satisfied? You probably have a prompt answer. And your answer is most likely not very nuanced; variations of “yes”, “no”, and “more or less” are rare. But what does sexual satisfaction actually mean?

Scientists have studied sexual satisfaction for quite a (relative) time. They have been able to determine that…

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Your Sexual Fantasies Are Not Weird

Our sexual fantasies. Most of us start blushing just by the thought of them. And most of us even feel a bit ashamed of them. But let me tell you: your sex fantasies are way less uncommon than you think.

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Orgasm Roulette: Not All Orgasms Are Equal

Have you ever been disappointed by an orgasm? It was almost there. The big firework. But then it was, well…just a little spark. Frustrating? For sure. But no two orgasms are the same.

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Pornography is Not Reality. Here Is Why.

Porn exists and porn is watched. A lot. And that’s totally fine. Porn is not bad. What becomes dangerous though, is when we forget that porn is an illusion. We know that porn sex is not real sex. But do we really know to what extent?

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Why Do Women Orgasm Less When They Have Sex With Men?

Does the number of orgasms we have determine our level of sexual satisfaction? Not only. But mostly. And when we compare how often heterosexual men orgasm versus heterosexual women[1], calling it an imbalance is an understatement. The difference is so significant that…

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The Obstacles to Female Orgasm? Here They Are.

“Females orgasm less often than males[1]”. It’s true. Unfortunately. But in heterosexual relationships. We hear, read, and say this over and over again. But do we ever hear, read, and say why?

The reasons are…

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Why You Should Never Fake Orgasms

Who never faked an orgasm? Raise your hand!

If there is one thing that has been consistent in studies since the ‘70s, it is that people are faking orgasms. And when I say people, I mean…

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Redefining Foreplay: A Necessity.

When you hear foreplay, what is the first thing that pops into your mind? Kissing? Sexting? Climax? Probably not. For most of us, foreplay implies the sexual acts preparing for penetrative sex. Because that’s what we were taught.

It’s not incorrect, but…

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No, Not Everyone Is Having More Sex Than You.

We don't know much about the intimacy of those around us, yet we sometimes think that their sexual life is better, richer, and more exciting than ours. This feeling is human, and this feeling is common. But there is a large gap between perception and reality.

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Does Sexual Compatibility Exist?

What if a simple test could tell us if we are sexually compatible with someone? Impossible? Well, researchers have been working on it. And the results might surprise you.

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Sex Is Not A Performance

We often believe that sex is something we have to master. We pressure ourselves to be unforgettable lovers and sex experts. But sex is not intuitive. And what does mastering sex even mean?

We typically think of partnered sex as…

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Receiving Is a Skill. And It Takes Practice.

The holiday season is here, with it, the focus on giving. Thankfully. But I would like to take a moment to talk about receiving.

Receiving sounds straightforward. But in intimacy,…

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Sex Scenes in Movies? Fantasy.

Sex in movies is not like sex in real life. We know that. But do we know how far away from reality sex scenes truly are? Luckily, online doctor service Zava did the work.

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