Are You Sexually Satisfied ?
Are you sexually satisfied? You probably have a prompt answer. And your answer is most likely not very nuanced; variations of “yes”, “no”, and “more or less” are rare. But what does sexual satisfaction actually mean?
Scientists have studied sexual satisfaction for quite a (relative) time. They have been able to determine that…
Your Sexual Fantasies Are Not Weird
Our sexual fantasies. Most of us start blushing just by the thought of them. And most of us even feel a bit ashamed of them. But let me tell you: your sex fantasies are way less uncommon than you think.
Orgasm Roulette: Not All Orgasms Are Equal
Have you ever been disappointed by an orgasm? It was almost there. The big firework. But then it was, well…just a little spark. Frustrating? For sure. But no two orgasms are the same.
Pornography is Not Reality. Here Is Why.
Porn exists and porn is watched. A lot. And that’s totally fine. Porn is not bad. What becomes dangerous though, is when we forget that porn is an illusion. We know that porn sex is not real sex. But do we really know to what extent?
The Obstacles to Female Orgasm? Here They Are.
“Females orgasm less often than males[1]”. It’s true. Unfortunately. But in heterosexual relationships. We hear, read, and say this over and over again. But do we ever hear, read, and say why?
The reasons are…
Yes, You Can Develop New Erogenous Zones!
Let me ask you: Do you know your erogenous zones? I bet most of you are nodding their head. But if I ask you to list them, how many are non-genital?
Let’s start with…
Why You Should Never Fake Orgasms
Who never faked an orgasm? Raise your hand!
If there is one thing that has been consistent in studies since the ‘70s, it is that people are faking orgasms. And when I say people, I mean…
Your Most Powerful Sex Organ? Your Brain!
When combining the words sexual and organ, few think of the brain. Yet, that’s our most important one. Because that’s where the magic – and the gloom – happens.
Redefining Foreplay: A Necessity.
When you hear foreplay, what is the first thing that pops into your mind? Kissing? Sexting? Climax? Probably not. For most of us, foreplay implies the sexual acts preparing for penetrative sex. Because that’s what we were taught.
It’s not incorrect, but…
No, Not Everyone Is Having More Sex Than You.
We don't know much about the intimacy of those around us, yet we sometimes think that their sexual life is better, richer, and more exciting than ours. This feeling is human, and this feeling is common. But there is a large gap between perception and reality.
How Your Beliefs Impact Your Sexual Satisfaction
We all have beliefs. And as they shape our perceptions and behaviors, they also influence our sexual satisfaction. I will tell you how.
Does Sexual Compatibility Exist?
What if a simple test could tell us if we are sexually compatible with someone? Impossible? Well, researchers have been working on it. And the results might surprise you.
Sex Is Good for Your Health. And Here Is Why.
Who has never heard that sex is good for their health? Probably no one. But do you actually know why?
Here it is.
Sex Is Not A Performance
We often believe that sex is something we have to master. We pressure ourselves to be unforgettable lovers and sex experts. But sex is not intuitive. And what does mastering sex even mean?
We typically think of partnered sex as…
Receiving Is a Skill. And It Takes Practice.
The holiday season is here, with it, the focus on giving. Thankfully. But I would like to take a moment to talk about receiving.
Receiving sounds straightforward. But in intimacy,…
You’re Not Dreaming, Your Menstrual Cycle Does Influence Your Desire
Have you ever wondered why your sexual desire - and even how sex feels - fluctuates during your menstrual cycle? Please welcome the culprit: our…
Sex Scenes in Movies? Fantasy.
Sex in movies is not like sex in real life. We know that. But do we know how far away from reality sex scenes truly are? Luckily, online doctor service Zava did the work.
First Sexual Experience: Did It Influence Your Current Sex Life?
Researchers have repeatedly reported that when women have sex for the first time, they are less likely to have a pleasurable experience than men[1].
Women's first experience is often...
Sex isn’t intuitive. Why were we never told?
The first time having sex. Who wasn't anxious before? And frankly, the horror stories that were told didn't help. Our fears mainly concerned…